"Just because you are beautiful, but doesn't mean you can treat people like they don't matter."
Quote this from 10 things I hate about you, just watched it like few weeks back thou people watched like years ago (you know, i'm slow XD), and it keeps on repeating in my mind, so decided to blog about it.
Yeah man, I couldn't agree more.
I've seen a few who are like Bianca.
Selfish, self centered, over confidence, thought that he/she is the center of attraction, looking down on people, using people.
She was scolded by Cameron and that's what he said.
These people live in their own well-imagined world, thinking that the world is spinning around them, they are the main characters and should be paid attention to. Once they lost the attention, they'll feel insecure and get pissed off. Somehow, I find them don't really know how to respect people, and whenever people said or did something that they think those people are hurting/insulting them, they'll break things down and start to create drama. Pointing fingers at you saying you are wrong, and of course in the end to prevent more climax, you would just apologize. Guess that is why people feel tired when being around them? They act like they are the one having problems in life, the others don't. Hello, everyone has their own problem, just that they don't show. Sometimes, I would think is it because they are being dramatic that's why they seem to have lots of problem? For the same situation, if it happens on the others, might they just chill and let it off?
We can't ask people to change in the way we want them to be, they are not our puppets. In return, we have to find a way to adapt to it, it's either we accept it, or we just totally ignore that.
In my opinion, these people should really have a cup coffee, lie on the grass in the evening, pull themselves out of their world and really look at the real world, look at the people around them. They are very lucky to have people who are still willing to care about them, accept their weaknesses thou they are giving them hard times. But still guess with that attitude, it's kinda not possible for them to see in that way. Because firstly, people like them wouldn't willing to accept opinions, as they think their own alternatives are better. Secondly, they think themselves are very good (which is why they are the center of the attraction), which makes it even harder to accept they are actually these problematic. Thirdly, they want people to go along with them not the other way round. Unless, they've met someone in their life who will affect the each and every breathe they take, but then again, they themselves are more important isn't? But I believe, nothing is impossible.
We, sacrifice for people we love, that is when you are able to put that person on top of you, love him/her more than yourself and you want the best in everything of his/hers.
I just hope that for these people, they will realize who they really have in their life, listen to what people have to say, take things easily and chill. You know, it's not necessary for people to tolerate you to this extent, people might just walk out of it and they are problem free. But if they have shown that they care, you should at least say thank you. Else, one day when you're left with no one, you would regret what you've done today.
No pointing fingers, it's just my opinion, I just somehow think that if they are able to get rid of these, they would be a much much better person :)
