多吃些粗粮.
给别人比他们自己期许的更多,并且用心去做
熟记你喜欢的诗歌
不要轻信你听到的每件事,不要花光你的所有,不要想睡多久就睡多久。
无论何时说“我爱你”,请真心实意。
无论何时说“对不起”,请看着对方的眼睛。
相信一见钟情。
永远不要忽视别人的梦想。
深情热烈地爱,也许你会受伤,但这是使人生完整的唯一方法。
用一种明确的方法解决争议,不要冒犯。
永远不要以貌取人。
慢慢地说,但要迅速地想。
当别人问你不想回答的问题时,笑着说“你为什么想知道?”
记住那些敢于承担最大风险的人才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就。
妈妈打电话。如果不行,至少在心里想着她。
当别人打喷嚏时,说一声“菩萨保佑”。
如果你失败了,千万不要忘记汲取教训。
记住三个“尊”:尊重你自己;尊重别人;保持尊严,对自己的行为负责。
不要让小小的争端损毁了一段伟大的友谊。
无论何时你发现自己做错了,竭尽所能去弥补。
动作要快!无论什么时候打电话,摘起话筒的时候请微笑,因为对方能感觉到!找一个你爱聊的人结婚 , 因为当年龄大了以后,你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点。
找点时间,单独呆会儿。
欣然接收改变,但是不要摒弃你的个人理念。
记住,沉默是金。
多看点书,少看点电视。
过一种高尚而诚实的生活。
当你年老时回想起过去,你就能再一次享受人生。
相信上帝,但是别忘了锁门。
家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的。
尽你的全力让家平顺和谐。
当你和你亲近的人吵嘴的时候,试着就事论事,不要扯出那些陈芝麻,烂谷子的事。
不要摆脱不了昨天。
多注意言下之意。
和别人分享你的知识,那才是永恒之道!善待我们的地球。
要愚弄自然母亲。
忙自己该做的事。
不要相信接吻时从不闭眼的伴侣。
每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方。
如果你赚了很多钱,在活着的时候多行善事。
这是你能得到的最好回报。
记住有时候,不是最好的收获也是一种好运。
深刻理解所有的规则,合理地更新他们。
记住:最好的关系存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求之上。
回头看看你发誓取得的目标,然后评判你到底有多成功。
无论是烹调还是爱情,都用百分之百的负责态度对待,但是不要期求太多的回报。
So happy and excite right now!!
I'm so happy cuz it's my big day today!!!!
yeah!!
Yesterday night my friends them pura pura wanna ajak go mamak and eat.
Then halfway, when we passed by the swimming pool, they all threw me inside!!
OMG~
I was wet...
Of course, I won't let them go easily^^
wakaka!!
In the end, all of us were wet.
And we didn't go mamak anymore~
Walk back to hostel^^
Today didn't go anywhere.
Later maybe will go out for dinner with friends^^
The first message I received is from my guitar sensei, Mathew.
Then, is my classmate, Vino.
After that, received from Cecilia (one of the friends who pushed me into the pool)
Then is my another best friend, Ee Teen. But unfortunately, she twisted her ankle yesterday night. But, we still thrown her into the pool as well^^ OKU no exception. hehexx!!
After that got from Migoo, Chia Yee, Vivian onnie, my cute brother^^
Today is his birthday also!!!
We are on the same day^^
Happy birthday to you too!!
And and, also my cousin, today is his birthday too!!!
Happy birthday yea!!
Many people birthday is on today!!
Haengbokkae!!!
haha!!
Although no celebration, but I'm still very happy because I received you guys message.
Again, wanna say Thank You So Much!!
Love you guys!!!
Muaksss!!!
Listening to this song..
From SNSD..
A nice song..
Nowadays kinda stress..
Got lots of things to do, but don't know where to start.
Got lots of things to say, but don't know where to start.
Got lots of things in my mind, but don't know how to do.
That's life?
Real reason for delaying the release of 4th album?
Only you guys know.
-TAG YOUR CASSIOPEIA CONTACTS AND DON'T FORGET TO TELL THEM THAT THEY'VE BEEN TAGGED
-LIST ONLY 5 THINGS THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT LEADER-SSHI AND U CANNOT HAVE THE SAME ANSWERS AS THE PERSON WHO TAGGED YOU
* ONCE TAGGED YOU MUST DO IT
Things that I like about him?
♡ His hardowrking had made him more attractive.
♡ The way he treats people around him also makes me like him. He is always be nice to people around him.
♡ He is a very good leader who always care about members. He put member in front of himself.
♡ He loves kids too. A guy who loves kids will definitely be a good guy.
♡ The way he fights for his dream.
Yea, i like these from yunho.
But, these WERE what you USED to be.
Now seems like you had lost yourself is it?
I can feel that you are not you anymore.
The way TVXQ are are already more and more business like.
Last time, you used to say:"It's not good to button my pants at here coz there are lots of girls who are holding their parents' hands to this concert."
But now, you became shirtless in the concert.
What do all of these signify?
And, why should you be shirtless in your performance?
You already have the charismatic even thou you are wearing clothes.
Last time, during "O" Jung. Ban.Hup, Rising Sun, Triangle, you don't need to be like, and you were also very hot.
Now, why are you doing this?
You need a long break to think of the inital motives of TVXQ.
TVXQ is different from others, but now, as what I saw, you are going to more and more alike as other artists.
Jae joong and Chang min no more sincere smiles on their face.
And I don't think Yoo Cheon oppa won't like his current hairstyle.
he's just to want be trendy.
TVXQ is TVXQ, not an entertainer.
You are a singer.
You have your talent and that's very enough already, why would you change to the way which is I almost can regconize?
You are losing yourselves.
Just think of what is the initial TVXQ want to do.
Why you all wanna be on the stage?
Is just to sing and dance, not to show off.
What you all have now is not what you want.
You are not that materialistic guys.
If you are, then just sorry.
I'd blinded my eyes all the while.
Language has always been the problem of communication among people.
Posted by Erica at 11:15 PM Friday, September 19, 2008Feel so sorry for lefting you out of our conversation.
I know you feel so sad and down because of this.
You became so moody right after we reach hostel.
Just walked back to room without saying anything.
It's really sorry.
Yesterday, my mum called me.
She asked me what I want for my birthday.
And I told her, nothing.
Actually is not nothing, just that the thing I want she wo't get it for me.
I knew that.
She'll say it's a waste of money.
So, I'll rather not to tell her.
Everytime my friends ask me:" What do you want for your birthday?"
I'll say:" No need la. No need to spend money^^ Your wish will do"
Yes, I'll be very happy whenever I receive wishes from you all.
I feel very warm.
But, actually, deep in my heart, I do have something that I want.
Every year is the same.
Just that it is kinda expensive, so I refused to say it out.
I did bought once for myself, and felt very happy.
Maybe when you all know what that present is, you guys will say that I'm crazy.
Cuz it's like spending like around 70 bucks for that thing which I can actually get free ones through the Internet.
But to me, it's really glad to have it with me.
But I only have 1.
I'd been liking them for more than 2 years.
And they gonna release new one soon.
But the prize I think will be freaking high since it's already had high searched records on the Internet after they release the news.
By the way, this year I can't celebrate my birthday.
It's my 18th birthday but I can't celebrate it.
What the hell is going on?
I also don't know.
Noone to blame on.
I regreted to know it.
Else, sure I'll have a very happy 18th birthday.
There are many kinda people in this world.
That was what I just realized.
Although yeah, I already knew about this since a long time ago.
But it never makes me feel so true until today.
Some always mix around with their true heart.
Some just be fake with everyone.
Some will take action right after they say.
Some just stay still at there starring and wait the things to go instead of trying to get over it.
Some will care about people they love.
Some just SAY they love, but do nothing other than keep on hurting people they love.
Some already had their direction and target to move onto.
Some are still like in the maze, lost their direction, don't know what they want.
Some are active.
Some are passive.
Some are childish.
Some are matured.
Some will face the problem and try to get an algorithm solution for it.
Some are just running away from it, and keep on finding things to blame on so that won't make him seems so useless.
It's 4:14a.m.
And I'm still staying awake.
Came back from Sunway Pyramid, and felt so tired.
But after that incident, I was no longer sleepy anymore.
While consulting him, I also thought of myself.
I told him to be mature.
I will think that, Am I mature enough?
And straight away, I got the answer.
YES, I AM.
At least in front of you, I am.
Do I have the right to consult you?
YES, I HAVE. This is because I am much more clearer than you.
Trying to wake him up.
He is just like a sleeping dragon.
Needs to be woke up.
He is still lost in his ow life, future.
Usually when guys come to such an age like him, they're already called a MAN.
But, he is still a boy.
He always says: :I don't know."
I hate phrase to much!!
You don't know don't mean that you are right.
You are still wrong!!
If you don't know, then go ahead to make yourself clear about it!
Didn't even take a simple action to ask people around you how to solve such problem.
You are just lazy to think of it, not you don't know.
You thought it is complicated, and then you'll never think about it.
If you don't want to think about it, you'll never grow up!
You say you know the problem and said ok, you will try to solve it.
But when it comes, you still saying those nonsense!
Dragging things on, make things even worse, and again, end up with "I don't know. Nature makes me like this."
Just don't know why, when come to friends' problems, I'll always take it more seriously than my own.
I will keep on thinking it again and again.
Trying my best to find an algorithm solution.
But this time, seems like I don't really helped much.
Or maybe it's because of I never experienced before?
hurm...
Not to say never experienced before.
It's because my experience was different.
But, I just don't want my friend to get pissed off again because of it.
These days, I can see that she's not happy.
She had did her best.
So, she shouldn't be in this incident anymore.
Left only the 100% immature him.
He didn't do his best.
At least, I can't see his effort.
And can't even see his sincerity.
Way to communicate among people is to tolerate, be patient, understand each other, help each other, cover each other's weaknesses, treat everyone with your heart, think before you step out each step, know what he/she needs then try your best to give him/her.
Everyone do has their own weakness.
Therefore, we should accept it, and help them to improve.
That's what I'd learnt for all this 18 years.
Realize it all by myself.
OMG!!!
Tonight our hostel black out twice..
All of the girls scream until the block almost shake d....
Suprisely, my friend who was staying in guys hostel, he told me, guys did scream like hell too...
I was wondering, why nowadays the guys are seem to be more sissy than girls...
Some of them dare not to speak to girls at all..
Why are them so shy?
hmm...
By the way, no more black out please...
It's already been very hot even with the fan.
Just can't imagine how it's gonna be like without the fan..
woo hoo!!!
Long time didn't blog d..
These days although I am quite free, just don't know why..
Nothing to blog about..
Ohyea~~
last tuesday, 林宇中came to our uni for a music sharing session...
wow!!
He was so damn good looking lo~
Standing infront of me..
Can see his face clearly.
Real person very good looking!!!
haha!!!
He did something that made me blush..
omg..
No way..
I don't like local artists one...
hehe..
I'll post up his photos ASAP^^