Thoughts.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

For the selfish and self-centered people out there:

Don't hurt people around you by giving the wrong message.
The world ain't spinning only around you.

You have your problems, they have too. So, don't put your probs on others.
Solve it on your own without letting others worry or even know because it's YOUR OWN problem.

If you care enough for them, you wouldn't want to drag them in for no reason and put the shit on them.

If you continue to live the way you want to, sorry then, one day, your world will left only you. One day.

You want people to be understanding and considerate towards you, but have you did it for them?
People are not necessary to treat you nice and stand in your shoes to think.
Think about it, what if they treated you like the way you treated them? Do you still think that it's necessary for them to do so?

Give and take, but sometimes, for people we love, we give but don't take.
Because we want everything good for them.
Cherish people around you, they are not necessary to be there for you, but somehow, they are there for you.
Don't take it for granted.

Yes, your principle is important, but you can't live based on your own principles only, what about others'?
Tolerate and be flexible.

Sometimes, people might offend you without knowing it, since people weren't did it on purpose, just forgive them and get it over.
If they repeated it, tell them nicely. You don't have to always make things so harsh to people.
You'll get back what you did to people one day, what you did today is what you get tomorrow. Karma.

And yes, if they're close with you they'll understand you, but you can't understand a person completely. So, when they can't understand, they'll tolerate. But patience has its own limit too They can't tell you because you're so self-centered that you can't accept what they say.
You'll probably cause a big fight before understanding what they are trying yo tell you. This is tiring for them.
In the end, they'll distance themselves from you in order to prevent from getting this kinda shit again from you.
If you don't want to lose your precious one, listen and think about what people say.
People say it for reason, listen patiently and think about it thoroughly.

You have to know, for them to let go of you is more hurtful than getting this kind of treatment from you.

We always get hurt the most from people who are important to us.
Do you get it people? :)

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